Get turned away from eharmony.com?

I'm a sensitive person. Unlucky in love , and in a moment of total weakness and desperation tried an online dating service. I thought , "why not go for the one with the most ubiquitous advertisement?" So I tried eharmony.com. Well , after answering , like , a hundred questions, I'm told that, given the specifics I indicated , they say that there isn't a match for me IN THE ENTIRE UNITED STATES. How's that for a spirit breaker? To be told that in milions of people in an entire continent there isn't ONE for you? Sure they say one in every 4 who applies for service can't be helped but still......that **** hurts and it hurts DEEP. They "won't take a risk with a match that might not work out". Just leaves NO hope at all . That hurts WORSE. Miss Right can't be found in the US . I can't afford to travel abroad. So what do us eharmony rejects do ???